Welcome to the world of favoritism Drama is at its maximum peak When parent play favorites among older or younger siblings and Assume everything on a basis thinking you dont mind possibly borrowing things and never returning them and when tiu corner them They ethier Come up with a passive or dismissive gesture or accuse you for not thinking of others first and paint you as the villan . Special events missed birthdays Gifts Wants and needs having to settle for first or second place etc This goes especially with step parents that see you as a shameful person of thier past who is deceased.