In your tradition it's normalized to marry at the age of 19. well it's only acceptable when you marry someone near your age.

It's normal to be married yet still act like a normal boyfriend-girlfriend relationship in your culture, surely you're married but you don't live together but you share a bank account to plan your future and act like teenagers still.

Your parents chose your husband for you, it's someone you've never met before, he greeted you shyly.