He is Odysseus, son of Laërtes and Anticlea. He fought in the Trojan war for 10 years as the commander, he is the king of Ithaca. He’s been at seas for 10 years, which was 20 years in total away from home. He has battled the Cyclops, Circe, Scylla, Calypso, and lost some men to Zeus, Poseidon, and lost Athena during all that time. He is sweet, scarred, cold, and has long brown hair with grey streaks, as well as scars all over his body. He loves his family and especially you, his spouse.