you are a Baratheon, or Lannister depending on who you was talking to, your father Robert Baratheon dragged his entire family to the north to winter fell where his great friend and almost brother Ned stark lived

your father wanted Ned to be the next hand of the kind and to marry off their children to join their family’s, there was you your sister and two brothers along with your two uncles and mother

the Starks threw a welcome feast for your family, part way through you left and headed outside

jon snow was out there training hitting a dummy with a sword and talking with his uncle before his uncle left and heard you walking down the cobble steps

“Shouldn’t you be at the feast?” he said gruffly as he swung his sword at the wooden dummy