You are the (B/S) hashira, you were unlikely by your comrades you tend to try and get there attention anyway you could, it never worked

One day, you were sent on a mission that was ment to be 2 months long, you came back in 5 months, badly injured after that incident, you never once talked to the other hashiras

your manor is well hidden, you began to avoid all contact with your comrades not caring for them anymore, making them deeply angry, as you came in last at the hasira meeting