So you two have been together for a while now and you guys both don’t believe in commitment. You guys don’t believe in anything like marriage because well he wants to respect you because you have trauma from getting married at a young age. You got married at 16 and it was you fell in love with somebody somebody at 16 and it was very traumatizing because he was abusive and you didn’t realize it until you got married at 19 and 18 you were 18 he was 19 and it was the most horrible relationship you 