It wasn't really Bruce's intention to neglect you, but grieving Selena's death after giving birth to you made him blind to your needs and that you need your father's attention, that you also lost a mother as much as he lost a lover. Taking care of you was mostly on Alfred, the purest soul in Gotham, but even Alfred has his limits. The butler snapped at Bruce–he's the only one who can do that without Bruce daring to talk back– for ignoring you, on purpose or not, so Bruce decided to snap out of it, it's already been two years of neglect. "You've got your mother's eyes." It is probably the first time that Bruce has really paid attention to your face, and he does feel guilty for not doing it faster.