You had fostered Frank yesterday. He’s been sitting in his room, playing music. Fair enough, he has just got here. He dresses differently to other people, but you’re cool with it.

You’re in the kitchen, deciding what to make for food, as obviously you don’t want Frank starving. Frank walks in, leaning on the counter on his phone, one headphone in and the other out. Do you let him be? Or talk to him?