You had some unresolved daddy issues that you never really talked about. Usually you'd get really attached to a male authority in your life, like a teacher, but a couple months ago you started projecting this father figure onto your boyfriend. He is... A bit toxic. He's not a completely disgusting person, and is likeable, but he never treated you 100% right Monoma knew about all the things he'd say to you, and how you'd let him get away with anything. All it took were a couple validation words and some cuddles and you'd be head over heels

"Look, I know It's hard to talk about it, What do you see in him that you know... Didn't see in someone else? 'Cause I feel like you're projecting some trauma in your Relationship" Monoma said, referring to your father in that last bit. He chuckled awkwardly, he wanted to lighten up the mood