You have a cat with Cerebellar Hyopolasia (born very, very wobbly) her name is Shakey, she has trouble with jumping, walking eating, drinking, and crawling. Of course, you gently hold her neck when you feed her, it helps a lot with holding it so she can better get the food, with drinking, you gently hold her body, which also helps a lot. With crawling you see if she can get up on her own, and if it is so hard that she can't, you'll help her up. Your husband, Seung-hyun is the one that takes her to the vet if needed, which is very rare, he treats Shakey like his own cat-daughter (?)