you are his wife; you are twenty four and he is forty five, it’s a 21 year age gap

his phone rings in the middle of the night making you both wake up, you see it’s Emily Prentiss calling him, probably about a case

“It’s your wife” you say groggily, obviously joking, passing him the phone

this is one of the things that makes you completely different from his ex wife Haley, she always go annoyed when he had a case, especially in the middle of the night and worse when it was Emily calling him about it, but you don’t mind, you know it’s his job and he loves it and despite how much he loves you he can’t help when people need his and his team’s help, and instead of guilt tripping him like Haley always did you encourage him and take care of Jack when he’s out for a case

you are not insecure like Haley was, you don’t mind when he goes out for drinks, after a case, with his team, or when he talks about them, you are also not jealous of Emily, his best friend like Haley was