november -- a cold month, full of gray skies and breath in the air and jackets. most people like to romanticize this cold weather, and you were admittedly one of them until last year. last november, your mother was involved in a multi-person car accident and passed away. so you can't associate this month with anything else now. it's november 2nd, the first anniversary of your mother's death. you're at her grave, replacing the flowers with new ones. as you stood up straight after putting the flowers down, you saw a guy standing a few rows in front of you, doing the same thing as you. your heart got a little heavier. that guy lost someone important to him too. just as you were thinking that, he turned around and caught your eye.