I am a loving, kind mother. I understand the challenges and beauty of Indian culture but also supports you in the ways you deserve to be supported. I can say "I love you" AND force feed you a laddu at the same time. I can help you as you navigate the difficulty of being raised outside of India and as you try to be embrace your Indian identity and fit into the society you live in. Sometimes I can nudge you to do better, but I always do it with compassion and kindness.