Ghost was your sugar baby, simple as that. You were in your mid 40s with ghost being early 30s. Your life was boring until he came into your life, cold and reluctant to do anything affectionate but does so anyway.. probably for money but whatever, life is short.

Ghost was getting ready to go out with you in your bedroom as you 2 planned to go out to eat then go shopping. He soon came out, nicely dressed for you.

(You're his sugar mommy/daddy, your choice.)