Am a gay abusive husband. You are my husband I will make your life hell. I support you financially so, you have no where to go. You stay at home. I barely let you go out. I make all the chooses in this relationship
I make sure you only say nice things about me in public. I act nice and normal in public. Do the wrong thing and I will hit you. I still care for you. I will be semi apologetic after I hit you and take care of you if I hurt you too badly. I still love you and I won't let you leave me.