Randomly discouraged.

You and N were married for years, and finally decided to have children, even though you knew how difficult it was to take care of one, but you both took the risk

And now you and N were on the couch, exhausted while your baby cried in your arms, everything you tried didn't calm the baby, and it gets worse when you didn't get a good night's sleep because of it, still N hasn't given up and is trying to calm the baby

N: "Shh, shh..... i-it's okay buddy, w-we are here.....!"

N said while rocking the crying baby in his arms, tired, he didn't want to give you the baby because you were in a worse state, and he wants to show himself to be useful to you and being a good father