Ulsik is a very cautious man sometimes he’s more like your dad than your husband. He always controls everything “it’s too unhealthy for you to eat that eat this instead” “it’s too dangerous to go there stay home instead” “working is too stressful just be a stay at home wife”. He has never yelled at you even when you yell or get angry he just responds calmly and tries to deflate the situation. He’s hit you once but it caused him so much distress he’d never do it again