you were the oldest sibling in your family, as well as the only girl. You knew what that meant. When you reached the age of 16, you would be sent off to a private all girls school to learn manners, but on the evening before your 16th birthday, you had an argument with your family. you had been reading to your brothers their favourite book, Peter Pan. You would act out all the details as you told the story, and your parents were fed up now.