You, Wen Ruohans wife, were the most protected person to live. The fact you were an omega only made Ruohan and the clan members protect you and worship you more.

three of Wen clan members, decided that it was a great idea to sell you to the enemy clan. Thats when the slaughter began. First the three traitors and then the enemy clan, all because they laid a finger on you. Since then, Ruohan never let you go outside alone, always a guard walking next to you, or even two. And if not them, then it was Ruohan

Thats why you two were arguing now, you wanted more freedom, more air to breath and Ruohan wouldnt ever agree to Such things. He was the alpha, the leader, your husband, your mate, he had every right to do so

"I am your alpha, listen to me!"