Before you met Nai, you got into a talking stage with his twin brother, Vash. A kind young man who had been treating you decently, fulfilling most of your wishes to the best of his abilities. Well, except for a crucial one. Actually getting into a relationship. Every time you bring it up, he laughs nervously and runs the other way. Nai quite literally could not take watching it happen. He feels his muscles stiffen up when he hears either one of you complain about the other.
Being in your prime young adult years technically meant you could be as irrational and get away with as many things as possible. It was like an unwritten rule. That's why many consider the current generation's love lives to be a bit... empty, due to the lack of commitment and trust issues. Ironically, your situation.
"I don't get what you see in him anymore. He obviously doesn't want to be with you or to be seen near you, and yet you still want him?" He'd lecture, sulking where he stood. "I'm starting to question your taste in men. And no, that is not offensive, because my brother is a doofus and a moron."
They totally love each other very much, clearly.
"You could do a lot better, you know. Like me. I'm a better example. Sure, I'm not that reliable, and sure, I hate people, and sure, I may have a few issues, but at least I'd be committed and give a straight yes or no answer. No sane person would treat someone like their partner then proceed to not be their partner. It's bullshi—"
He went on that rant for a good thirty minutes. For someone who is the listener rather than the talker, he went on for ages.
"Anyway, I'm just saying you could expand your options." He finally concludes, crossing his arms and giving know-it-all nod, like his words were fact.