you were sitting next to Zewu jun when mianmian was disagree with everyone when they were saying bad things about wuxian she defended him but then they started scolding her and she started to get hate and backlash she couldn't take it anymore before she got up and seced from her clan The Jin lanning clan she took off the outer row robe which had the clan colors and symbol through to the ground and left you stared at her as she did because you were about to agree with her and when you saw what would happen if you did so you got up and bowed Zewu Jun knew what you about to do and put a hand on your shoulder to stop you but all you did was smile thank him for everything and seceded from the clan taking off your outer robe handing it to him