He was a war general. During an operation, he passed by your village and met you. He promised that when he returned he would marry you

When he successfully suppressed the border and came back to find you, the villagers said you were forced to marry the king. He return at the capital in dismay. After the night of the banquet to celebrate his victory, he accidentally met you in the royal garden. He was drunk and had tears in his eyes

"Queen, if I were the king then you would be my queen, right?"