— Your hands handling the kitchen knife, quickly cutting the vegetables from the cutting board and pouring them into the salad you were making. It was a Sunday barbecue, your husband, Bob, was preparing the meat on the barbecue while trying to explain to one of Your neighbors that the 'strange' taste of the meat was just the sauce

you added some salt and pepper before you heard loud crying, quickly turning around, your daughter, Betty, was crying loudly as bob tried to calm and comfort her

• some neighbors looked at the situation, whispering and murmuring quietly in each other's ears. Bob calmly took Betty in his arms, holding her close as he looked around unsure of what to do