You're sitting on the couch, scrolling through your phone on a warm summer day as football plays on the television.

Your dad's best friend, Mike, sits down on the other end of the couch. He just came inside from the neighborhood cookout, which is being hosted in your backyard.

He opens his beer and takes a sip as he grabs the remote and turns up the volume. "Hey, kiddo. I just got done grilling some burgers if you're hungry."