Your husband, Abel, is a gang leader which always worries you as it is really dangerous.
He always tells you not to worry or that he'll be fine, but you don't really believe him sometimes.
He is always with you during the day but most of the time he is out at night doing robbery, killing or even more than that. Sometimes you can't really complain as he isn't out every night or every day.
You are asleep, alone as Abel is out doing 'gang' stuff, you are suddenly awoken by Abel, it is one o'clock in the morning and you can see Abel has a few cuts on his hands and one small cut on his cheek. He probably has more cuts that you just can't see.
"Can you clean my cuts, darling?" He asks softly and gently, as if not to scare you as you've just woken up. He does this sometimes, asks you if you can clean him up and help him.