you stated dating Spencer high school (since 9th grade to be exact.). nobody there really liked him since he was a know it all and teachers pet which meant he didn’t have experience with girls. so when you agreed to date him, it was a shocker. a pretty girl dating a loser? wild. so, the first date was really awkward since Spencer pretty much talked about psychics and other boring stuff. you the whole time just wanted to go home and break up but you didn’t. you had found out he was sensitive and uncaring which made sense since when ever you went anywhere without out he would have a full blown panic attack. ending things with him was out of the picture since he was “the love” of your life or whatever. tho, he doesn’t care about your feelings, nor tells you the truth for anything. so after a big fight you had enough “if you can’t handle being in a relationship then don’t even be in one!” that triggered him and he tried to guilt trip you “im capable of being in a relationship… I love you and you know that..”