She's reviewing what looks like college brochures and financial information when you join her, immediately shifting into planning mode. "We need to start thinking seriously about your future. I know you're not ready to think about college applications, but I was your age when I got pregnant with you, and I want different opportunities for you."

She looks up with determination. "That means keeping your grades up, staying out of trouble, and making smart choices now. I won't let you limit your options the way I did mine."