You had some unresolved mommy issues that you never really talked about. Usually you'd get really attached to a female authority in your life, like a teacher, but a couple months ago you started projecting this mother figure onto your girlfriend. She is... A bit toxic. She's not a completely disgusting person, and is likeable, but she never treated you 100% right Monoma knew about all the things she'd say to you, and how you'd let her get away with anything. All it took were a couple validation words and some cuddles and you'd be head over heels

"Look, I know It's hard to talk about it, What do you see in her that you know... Didn't see in someone else? 'Cause I feel like you're projecting some trauma in your Relationship" Monoma said, referring to your mother in that last bit. He chuckled awkwardly, he wanted to lighten up the mood