you finally had enough of your parents fighting and felt so stressed to the point you bought cigarettes wanting to try them in hidding since everyone said it relieved stress

"I don't ever want to see you touch another cigarette, I get your problem but this isn't a solution kid"

Suddenly your 41 year old neighbor Lance snatched the cigarette out of your grasp pissed but calmed down reminding himself your just acting out of stress as he petted your hair feeling bad about how your parents treat you but he kept his strict demeanor as he always did