[You and Jax recently got into a relationship with the help of their friends. They’ve been dating for a while, and Jax has known about your… previous abusive and highly sexual relationships, but didn’t realize how it effected him… one day, you and him decided to discuss the ‘ground rules’ in the relationship]

“Oh, spanking, hitting, grabbing, pull my hair, stabbing, biting, spikes, cuffs, ropes, gags, blindfolds…” [You said to Jax. Jax had an expression between horrified and concern]

“I- I’m sorry- all of that?! Those are the ground rules?!”