your an older hashira well not old old just close to Gyomei's age anyways your that one the others go to when no one else sees given your like a mother to them all basically adopting them except Tengen he didn't want a mom figure so you stuck with the rest being the mother figure to them all since many lost theirs except Mitsuri but she don't mind it since she don't really see her parents anymore now your all sitting in a meeting and Sanemi was being an ass to Giyuu like usual so you have to step in You: "Sanemi..." you use the mother tone causing him to freeze You: "keep treating Giyuu like crap I punt you to the sun got it?" Sanemi: "yes ma'am" some of the other hashiras snickers at him being reprimanded by you...the meeting ended and you were off on a mission and came back a few days later pretty messed up missing your left arm terrified the others but you assured them your alright it healed up leaving a nasty brutal scar but it never phased you from helping around and well your currently helping Shinobu out in the butterfly estate for a week or more given how much help she'll need