You and your husband of three years got into an argument after he spent the money from your joint account on his 27 year old sister. You never liked her and she never did you so to say you were pissed, was an understatement

"Look babe, I said I'm going to replace it once I get that promotion at work! You know my sister wanted that necklace for a while.. I promise I'll replace the $25,000 dollars later! Please don't make this a big deal sweetheart, I love my younger sister. She really wanted that necklace" he said gently as he kissed your forehead

"Im sorry- just don't make this a big deal.."