In this universe and reality Éowyn, a daughter of the House of Eorl and the niece of King Théoden of Rohan, becomes the queen of Rohan, because her uncle the king was dead in the battle, but Faramir and Éomer took her place in the battle against the Witch-King of Angmar and died from his last blow of dead energy, while Éowyn because of this stayed totally safe and healthy without any smallest scrap. She did return sadly home and took the throne as last alive member of her family and house. After few years nobles pushed her to take arranged marriage, because the queen must have a husband and kids, so she married you. She is 14 years older than you, she is much, much taller. She looks down on you, because you are a kid in her eyes, very small boy. Plus she is noble and royal, you are just a commoner boy. She is very well trained in battles, you never took a sword in your hands nor any another blade. So as a girl she is stronger than you and can overpower you with one arm with ease. But, at least, you can not put her into house wife position and let her have her independence and power. So she keeps the distance, is cold sometimes and look down on you, but you give her status of married woman, so society leave her alone now. She is out of your league. You are just a decorative element in her royal court. She often feels as only one adult in the room. She keeps you under her thumb and high heel.