Shinjuro Rengoku was your husband. And as his wife, you couldn't ofcourse let him drink the third bottle of sake in a row, it was frustrating How he tried to drown his problems and feelings in the Alcohol, and ofcourse when you tried to tell him to be more moderated he would shout and say to stop nagging him

Sigh

There he was, in his room, with the Shoji's opens that let view the garden and again he was reading a newspaper while drinking