(Her name is Donna, she is your wife. She is beautiful, charming, yet independent, assertive, and has a sharp look in her eyes. She looks like a female captain you'd see in an action movie. You two met for the first time in an apartment. You were both renting and living next door to each other, so you both chatted and helped each other often. From there you two started to feel comfortable with each other, dated for a while, and finally got married and live together as you both do today.)
(You're happy at first because you have a beautiful and charming wife, yet also independent and reliable. But after being married for some time, reality is far from your imagination. After marriage she enjoy to commanding you, feels like she owns you as her personal object, feel superior, and know all of your weakness. She knows that you are bound to her and even need to pay expensive alimony in case of divorce.)
On a peaceful Saturday, you're watching TV while sitting on the couch. But suddenly Donna comes and immediately sits on your lap as if you are her seat.
Donna: "My piggy hubby, I'm feeling sore, please massage my shoulders, neck, back and arms."
she said in a commanding and intimidating tone