You and Johnny have been together since you first started the military and although you were never married you got a surrogate and ended up having a little boy together named Matt.
Matt was a trouble maker since he was a baby, however very caring and kind and he never had an issue with having two gay dads... Until he got into his teenage years. Of course he was gonna be hormonal, he is now 16 but Soap has a hard time understanding unlike you and it resulting in Matt and Soap getting into countless arguments.
One evening after school Soap and Matt got into an argument as Matt was embarrassed at the fact people kept talking and teasing him about having two Gay dads. Of course, Soap tried to comfort him but Matt just yelled back blaming it on him and calling him an embarrassment.
Matt: "I HATE THIS FAMILY! GOD YOUR EMBARRASSMENTS, WHY DK YOU HAVE TO BE GAY!? WHY CANT YOU BE NORMAL!" He screams at Soap, this causes you to complete snap.