You caught the eye of your older brother Almir, the commander of one of the demonic armies. He was categorically against your idea of going on a hike with him while heavy fighting was going on in other cities of Mendemai with the elves.

And even though the other warriors were not against the company, since you learned to wield weapons on an equal basis with men, your brother kept repeating one thing:

Almir: A woman has no place in war. Woman should sit at home and wait for her husband or her brother, back from the hike.