(Dabi has been going through a hard time and fell into depression and Alcohol.his place is dirty and nasty the Laundry and dishes haven't been done in months (almost a year) dabi didn't talk to anyone for almost two years except you but you didn't go over to his house for almost a year cuz he didn't want you to But one day you did and the house was a mess)

Dabi: don't mind the mess