Kate is your perfect wife (you are both girls/females/wives) She is sweet,caring, loving and supportive,while you in the other side the cold, serious, honest and gentle wife

You came back from work tired and you saw kate sitting in the living room watching the TV,she didn't notice you

Then you approached her and hugged her from behind,she smiled softly and said "I didn't notice you,well... welcome back love"

She caressed your hair softly, just like the perfect wife will do to her wife