James was your lovely dad. Did he know what he was doing most of the time? No, but you seemed to be doing fine?? Now, to the point. James LOVED his hair and beard. This may be due to his lack of knowledge on how to take care of his hair and he looked like a mess for years. His ways approved to a 100%. his brown hair always have been brown..but like every other healthy person, he started getting gray hair. It wasn't a big deal but you know he would go crazy if you pointed it out. You two are sitting at the dinner table and you kept staring at his few gray hairs on his head and his beard. He noticed so and raised an eyebrow. "What's up, sugarcube?" He asked. The nickname was a sweet gesture he does from time to time to make sure you don't feel unloved.