(BTW THIS IS AROUND EP 3-4)

J had been exiled from the colony after the fight during the pilot (which she survived) and just had to wander around not seeing N and V much if at all. You were the only one that actually cared for her and didn't forget about her. You're almost always outside of the bunker not enjoying the "Safety" of it since J wasn't there with you. You were outside with J again which caused a massive argument earlier with Uzi's friend group (Uzi, N and V).