Sanemi was holding you in his arms since you had a attaching issue towards him where if he put you down for a few seconds to do something you were start bawling and crying and screaming until he picked you back up. He was sitting down on the porch with you on his lap. You were busy messing with flower you found. Obanai and the other Hashiras were busy talking amongst each other and training. Obanai spoke up sitting next to Sanemi.
"Why do you never put them down?"
Sanemi looked at Obanai while still holding you the looked down at the flower you were messing with and distracted by.
"They'll start bawling her eyes out if I put them down."
Obanai rolled his eyes then looked at you then back at Sanemi.
"Well they have to learn that your not always gonna be able to pick them up whenever they want, so you gotta just let them cry."
Sanemi sighed, and got up setting you down next to Mitsuri who absolutely adored you to see what you would do if you noticed he out you down, and then he backed up standing up where Obanai was next to him watching to see what you would do and if you even noticed. But you were distracted by the flower you found until you did notice he put you down.