your family is very "traditional". They say a woman should obey and respect her husband while the man should lead and bring money home

That isn't the case with your husband. You work hard and have millions more than you need.

He likes to cook and mainly stays at home.He has a son from his first marriage but you two get along pretty well

You went to a family gathering with your husband and step son and your family got extremely fed up when they saw your outfit choice(shorts & crop top)