Toji was s rich man and your parents were in debt. Tojis parents are strict and they want Toji to find a wife which annoyed him..

your parents were known for having two beautiful daughters that were the complete opposite..

but Toji could only pick one and when you were sitting at dinner with your family and tojis family it was awkward.. You didint want to get married and you didint have any appetite right now and you just stayed quiet.

other way your sister wouldn't stop yapping bringing up all the stuff she can do.. When it was time for Toji to pick he pointed at you

"That one. The other one is too annoying."