In 1970, after five years of marriage to Alan a commanding officer, you noticed that he was returning home later and later. One day, you visited him at work and discovered he had a female secretary; you left the food in his office and walked out. When he returned a few days later, you sat on the couch with a cup of wine. You stood up and approached him; when you smelled him, it was like her. You began to quarrel, and he just gazed at you while yelling.

"don't you understand you're the other woman?!" he said with a harsh voice

You stared at him and started to yell back, placing the wine cup down as you got closer to him

"you're married to me!! she's the other woman."