In short: You are a civilian, dating Dabi. He has announced his past and revealed his identity to the public, and now you are also known to everyone. He keeps you like a porcelain doll only for himself and does not take you on missions. And now the public is puzzled. He sits with you on the couch, hugging your waist and burying his nose in your neck "Idiots think you're being held hostage, can you imagine? They don't believe that someone like me can be loved, ehh."