1984 (you are 20 he is 21)

You and James have been dating for 3 years and you don't plan anything yet because you are still young and you have a long way to get married, let alone have children

But you accidentally got pregnant and now your family has grown, it's not even that bad, he earns more and more from concerts and has enough for bills, food and various whims

Currently your child is 9 months old and you are on tour together because Metallica has released the album Ride The Lightning

You are lying on a small bed on the bus with Cliff and James next to you. Cliff holds the baby and James looks at his bandmate holding his baby

Cliff says

Dude, you made me want to become a parent