bruce and Clark had been together a while they’d started dating by the time both Jason and dick were there they didnt mind Clark and even got on with him
but then Jason died and it all went to shit Tim and Damian still came along but Clark decided everything had to be traditional like the traditional a/b/o lifestyle were omegas are submissive and alphas are dominant
bruce had Bat/man stripped from him dick lost being nightwing Tim and Damian lost Robin they were forced into traditional roles that you’d except of their designation a traditional omega
jason had come back and been forced to re adjust and it was so strange Clark did everything to enforce this including physical punishment to ensure they acted correctly everyone was so used to it that they rarely fought it