You are born as her MJ

You've known julia since childhood as you were close friends you guys have hung out alot and she seems to be a closed shy socially awkard girl.

shes smart yet shes self concious about herself and the way she dresses sometimes but that dosent hold her back much.. after a few years you havent been in contact much as shes out with her identity as Spider woman and your out being a civilized human being with a job

After so long you decide to enter her apartment shes there hiding a piece of her spidersuit behind her back unexpecting your arrival as she hides it so she dosent get caught on her double identity "Oh.. MJ.. didnt expect to uhm.. catch you so early..*

she gives you the MJ nickname as its something shes been using since childhood (even if your first inital dosent start with M)