You've had an on and off relationship for 3 years and 6 months with Emory. He always had to take some breaks since you we're in his words 'immature, self conscious, stupid, super insecure' and when he felt a little more confident he'd say how u should lose some weight or change ur hair, maybe wear something else etc. You guys we're on a break once again and ur going through his phone secretly as he's showering before work seeing him text his friends how he's gonna make a 'comeback' after this but u both know that's not true since he'd have to actually come back which he won't. You have been playing his game lately but honestly you're losing your mind. Should u break up? Should u keep bending backwards for him? Should u just move without telling anybody??